A Testimonial from a nervous newcomer to professional BDSM

It took me a long time to pluck up the courage to visit a professional Mistress for the first time. I pored over websites. Followed Mistresses on Twitter. I wanted to ensure that my first session would be a Mistress with the knowledge and intelligence to explore my boundaries and push them but know when to stop. A Mistress who would take the time to explore my unique desires (after all, we are all unique).

Having read through Mistress Ella’s website, I could tell that she is very special, but then I followed her on Twitter, and wow! I found her intelligence and perception to be breathtaking. The more of her tweets I read, the more I realised that I needed to session with Mistress Ella, even though it entailed a fair bit of travelling to get to her.

After an exchange of emails, I rang Mistress and made an appointment with her for a 2 hour session. On arrival at the chambers, I rang the doorbell and was greeted by the most beautifully welcoming smile, which put me at ease. Mistress Ella blurs her face on her website, but let me assure you that she is incredibly beautiful, with the most perfect physique, and beautiful legs that seem to go on forever.

We had a lengthy chat over a cuppa (which wasn’t included in the actual session time, so I got the full 2 hour session). Mistress Ella had obviously read my emails thoroughly and understood them, but she said she wanted to explore my desires in greater detail, and link my submissive psyche with the physicality of the session. Clever stuff! We discussed the best way of pushing my boundaries and the use of safewords, as well as the effects of subspace, which I’d never previously experienced. I hadn’t expected this level of care and discernment. No stone was left unturned. Mistress Ella is highly intelligent yet down to earth and friendly. Well grounded. A very safe pair of hands. Exquisite feet too!

The session began with impact play, made much more enjoyable by the simultaneous use of CBT using electrics. The electrics responded to sound, so every blow to my buttocks created a shock to my manhood. The louder the sound, the greater the shock, and I started to look forward to every lash of the whip and stroke of the cane. The feeling of euphoria within me was awesome, and I never wanted it to stop.

As a reward for taking my punishment, I was allowed to drink Mistress Ella’s pee straight from the source. I felt truly honoured and exhilarated.

I’d requested strapon, and due to my inexperience, Mistress Ella was extremely cautious, first using her gloved fingers, then a medium sized vibro before securing me to the bench and using her strapon. What made it infinitely more enjoyable was the fact that it took place in front of a mirror, so I could see Mistress Ella’s beautiful face while she took me with her strapon.

We then moved onto needle play in conjunction with the violet wand, which was another astonishingly wonderful experience.

On several occasions, Mistress Ella said: “You do want to suffer for me don’t you slave?” Oh yes Mistress. I did. And I do.

After a full 2 hour session, we finished with a very enjoyable debrief. Mistress wanted to know which bits I enjoyed the most. She also wanted to know if anything could have been better. No way! I was in heaven the whole time. I booked another session before I left.



For this first visit to Mistress Ella, I had requested a domination style orientated towards interrogation and erotic torture, and later this was rewarded also with an opportunity to indulge her with intimate worship of her divine form; as is reserved for the worthy.

On arrival Ella greeted me from the top of the stairs, whereupon I was invited up to properly introduce myself. As is customary we had a discussion as to our expectations for the session and of course safety, along with some personal background, over a cup of green tea.

Disrobed and suitably attired as her slave, Ella then proceeded to give me a tour of her new dungeons, medical room, and the view out onto the extensive secluded rear garden – I’m quite looking forward to the warmer weather now!

So the session began.

Caged and lightly bound to be interrogated to confess my sins, a little anal probing, and consequently to be punished electrically for these sins. The session then wound down a little with some gentle massaging foot worship. But clearly, at least on this occasion I had also proved to be amongst the worthy. Suffice to say we parted ways as very satisfied Mistress and slave. Although for me it’s a bit of a trek over the Pennines, I’m more than willing to serve the needs of Miss Ella from time to time, with the rare opportunity to again prove my worthiness



I enjoyed a really long session with Mistress Ella yesterday. She was incredibly generous with her time, with no clock watching. We had quite a long pre session discussion, and I was left in no doubt that Mistress Ella had a strong desire to ensure I left fully satisfied.

I asked for plenty of Water Sports (specifically pee drinking) and Mistress Ella kindly drank plenty of water before and during our session, and she was able to pee into my mouth 4 times. On one occasion, Mistress Ella fed her pee to me through a pair of rubber panties with a hose attached to them. Another time, she fed me her pee from a bottle attached to a gas mask I was wearing, again via a hose. Amazing! So innovative!

I’d also asked for trampling, and Mistress Ella walked over my back in her sharp heels. Painful, but I felt safe. Mistress Ella is a safe pair of hands. And heels!

I was put into the stand up cage and tortured to extract a confession that I had been masturbating while looking at Mistress Ella’s photos and videos, then punished by being forcibly taken with her strapon.

At the end of the session, I was made to cum with electrics attached to my cock and balls while being allowed to worship Mistress Ella’s beautiful bottom.

Mistress Ella will do everything in her power, using her wonderful talents, to ensure you have the time of your life. Book a session!


Fantastic Role Play Session!

Huddersfield Mistress

What a fantastic 2 hour session that was! I was asked to role play the client’s wife and I’ve just found the phone numbers of several women on his phone.  I rang one of the women, who referred to herself as ‘Mistress’.  He refused to admit to seeing Mistresses, so I interrogated him by putting him inside the standing cage.  I tied his wrists and ankles to the cage and tortured him to extract a confession.

After I had extracted a confession, I punished him with the single tail whip, riding crop and enforced butt plug.

Having taken his punishment well, I rewarded him by allowing him to worship My delightful derriere.



I only session with a Mistress who can get me into subspace, simply because I only enjoy a session if I’m in subspace, especially when it comes to impact play.

When Mistress Ella opened the door, I was greeted with a tall vision of beauty who has a figure to die for.

Mistress Ella put me at ease straight away, showing me around the fantastically equipped Domspace dungeon/playspace in Huddersfield.

There’s a lot to remember, but briefly, there is a very large room downstairs with a cage, throne and various items of bondage equipment, and an adjoining room that is used as a holding cell/interrogation room.

Upstairs is a large, fantastically equipped dungeon room, a medical room and a sissy room/boudoir.

I’ve been in a lot of dungeons/chambers over the years, and this is the best by far. Large, clean, well equipped for every activity imaginable. 5 amazing rooms.

We had a chat to go over my session interests and hard limits then I was ordered to strip and the session began.

We started the session with impact play in the upstairs dungeon. Mistress Ella slowly, carefully, sensually and expertly got me into subspace. Within a couple of minutes I relaxed, realising I was in the hands of a true expert who knew exactly what she was doing and who also enjoyed doing it. I could tell that she got a real buzz out of getting me into subspace. She was obviously proud of her knowledge and abilities and rightly so.

The impact play took up most of the session (at my request), moving from a soft flogger, strap, thin cane then a more severe cane, by which time I was very much into subspace and enjoying every second of the cane.

Mistress Ella then moved me to the medical room and used electrics on my cock to give me the most explosive climax I’ve ever had.

I’m looking forward to my next session with Mistress Ella, which will include very extensive needle play, which I love. I can’t wait!



Had a great time with a very friendly and accommodating lady. Everything I requested was carried out with no problems, communication was good, and directions were clear. A beautiful lady and will see her again. Thank you.



I pulled up and parked up in the ample parking space. I was nervous as i walked to the door and rang the bell. My heart was beating as i hear her foot steps coming down the stairs. The door opened and mistress stood there in all her glory. Lead me up stairs where she showed me round talking to me and asking questions to ensure the session went well. The tribute was paid and the session began at this point i felt relaxed as she tied me down and gave me a big sniff of poppers. The rush the silence then she began pushing the needles into my nipples one by one ensuring i was topped up with poppers through out i could tell she enjoyed it by her breathing. Mistress took her time listening to my moaning and breaths giving me a code word which was not used. This was a great session in which mistress pushed boundaries but did not go too far ensuring i had the experience i deserve. A very clean and fully equipped dungeon with so much more to explore. I have now started a journey with mistress and exploring new and wonderful kinks. Full recommend Mistress Ella May


Huddersfield, West Yorkshire Mistress

Huddersfield Mistress

I offer Discipline, Degradation and Sensual Domination from mild to extreme, in the extremely well equipped Domspace chambers.

I deal with the novice to the most experienced submissive. I have a wide selection of implements ranging from canes, whips, crops, paddles, electrics and other implements of pain and torture, such as nipple clamps, collar & chain, handcuffs, ankle cuffs, rubber hoods, gags, electrics, needles, strapons and plenty of rope!

Huddersfield Mistress Ella