A Testimonial from a nervous newcomer to professional BDSM

It took me a long time to pluck up the courage to visit a professional Mistress for the first time. I pored over websites. Followed Mistresses on Twitter. I wanted to ensure that my first session would be a Mistress with the knowledge and intelligence to explore my boundaries and push them but know when to stop. A Mistress who would take the time to explore my unique desires (after all, we are all unique).

Having read through Mistress Ella’s website, I could tell that she is very special, but then I followed her on Twitter, and wow! I found her intelligence and perception to be breathtaking. The more of her tweets I read, the more I realised that I needed to session with Mistress Ella, even though it entailed a fair bit of travelling to get to her.

After an exchange of emails, I rang Mistress and made an appointment with her for a 2 hour session. On arrival at the chambers, I rang the doorbell and was greeted by the most beautifully welcoming smile, which put me at ease. Mistress Ella blurs her face on her website, but let me assure you that she is incredibly beautiful, with the most perfect physique, and beautiful legs that seem to go on forever.

We had a lengthy chat over a cuppa (which wasn’t included in the actual session time, so I got the full 2 hour session). Mistress Ella had obviously read my emails thoroughly and understood them, but she said she wanted to explore my desires in greater detail, and link my submissive psyche with the physicality of the session. Clever stuff! We discussed the best way of pushing my boundaries and the use of safewords, as well as the effects of subspace, which I’d never previously experienced. I hadn’t expected this level of care and discernment. No stone was left unturned. Mistress Ella is highly intelligent yet down to earth and friendly. Well grounded. A very safe pair of hands. Exquisite feet too!

The session began with impact play, made much more enjoyable by the simultaneous use of CBT using electrics. The electrics responded to sound, so every blow to my buttocks created a shock to my manhood. The louder the sound, the greater the shock, and I started to look forward to every lash of the whip and stroke of the cane. The feeling of euphoria within me was awesome, and I never wanted it to stop.

As a reward for taking my punishment, I was allowed to drink Mistress Ella’s pee straight from the source. I felt truly honoured and exhilarated.

I’d requested strapon, and due to my inexperience, Mistress Ella was extremely cautious, first using her gloved fingers, then a medium sized vibro before securing me to the bench and using her strapon. What made it infinitely more enjoyable was the fact that it took place in front of a mirror, so I could see Mistress Ella’s beautiful face while she took me with her strapon.

We then moved onto needle play in conjunction with the violet wand, which was another astonishingly wonderful experience.

On several occasions, Mistress Ella said: “You do want to suffer for me don’t you slave?” Oh yes Mistress. I did. And I do.

After a full 2 hour session, we finished with a very enjoyable debrief. Mistress wanted to know which bits I enjoyed the most. She also wanted to know if anything could have been better. No way! I was in heaven the whole time. I booked another session before I left.